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okay, so i'm gonna do this...
since it is international coming out day and i never "officially" came out, i'm gonna do it now so here we go.
i am asexual, pan-romantic, and Gender queer, and i have been for a really long time.
i came out to my close friends first and then my parents after because most of my friends are Queer themselves and my parents aren't and in some ways i feel closer to my friends then i do to my parents. i first started questioning two-ish years ago and came out one or two years ago but it felt like a lot of never really took my coming out seriously. and i had just sort of done casually, kind of a "hey can you help me with this math question? also i'm Ace. where do you want to sit at lunch today?" so this is my "official" coming out.
i should probably explain a little more than i have.
Asexual: asexuality is when you do not experience sexual attraction to anyone, but like everything else in life, it's a spectrum.
there are Aces who don't experience sexual attraction and don't feel comfortable with sexual activities, grey-As don't experience sexual attraction but depending on the person are okay with varying degrees of sexual activities, and Demisexuals don't experience sexual attraction towards someone unless they experience romantic attraction to them first.
i know i'm grey-A but i think i might be Demisexual (i'm still trying to figure that one out because i'm in my first ever relationship right now and i'm trying to figure out what all these emotions and feeling i have for my BAE are and mean. :/ )
pan-romantic: is being romanticly attracted (NOT the same as sexual attraction) to all genders, including ones outside of male or female genders, such as genderfluid people and agender people.
gender queer: emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, i am neither male nor female even though i was born female. i use neutral pronouns (they, them, their) and being referenced to by feminine pronouns makes me uncomfortable with my self and my body. (not actual definition that every genderqueer goes by but it's accurate to me.)
i realize that i have always been this way, ever since i was a little kid, i just never knew that what the terms were or that there was nothing wrong with me until now. but now i know, and it's good knowing. =^-^=
so this is my "official" coming out, Ta-Da!
nya~
since it is international coming out day and i never "officially" came out, i'm gonna do it now so here we go.
i am asexual, pan-romantic, and Gender queer, and i have been for a really long time.
i came out to my close friends first and then my parents after because most of my friends are Queer themselves and my parents aren't and in some ways i feel closer to my friends then i do to my parents. i first started questioning two-ish years ago and came out one or two years ago but it felt like a lot of never really took my coming out seriously. and i had just sort of done casually, kind of a "hey can you help me with this math question? also i'm Ace. where do you want to sit at lunch today?" so this is my "official" coming out.
i should probably explain a little more than i have.
Asexual: asexuality is when you do not experience sexual attraction to anyone, but like everything else in life, it's a spectrum.
there are Aces who don't experience sexual attraction and don't feel comfortable with sexual activities, grey-As don't experience sexual attraction but depending on the person are okay with varying degrees of sexual activities, and Demisexuals don't experience sexual attraction towards someone unless they experience romantic attraction to them first.
i know i'm grey-A but i think i might be Demisexual (i'm still trying to figure that one out because i'm in my first ever relationship right now and i'm trying to figure out what all these emotions and feeling i have for my BAE are and mean. :/ )
pan-romantic: is being romanticly attracted (NOT the same as sexual attraction) to all genders, including ones outside of male or female genders, such as genderfluid people and agender people.
gender queer: emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, i am neither male nor female even though i was born female. i use neutral pronouns (they, them, their) and being referenced to by feminine pronouns makes me uncomfortable with my self and my body. (not actual definition that every genderqueer goes by but it's accurate to me.)
i realize that i have always been this way, ever since i was a little kid, i just never knew that what the terms were or that there was nothing wrong with me until now. but now i know, and it's good knowing. =^-^=
so this is my "official" coming out, Ta-Da!
nya~
i'm back... maybe
not sure if i'm permanently back as i have not been doing much art at all lately. but i need to hide the cringe of my early deviant art days. so i'll be burying it under as much art and photography from highchool and college as i can find.
i have missed quite a few birthday wishes and comments. but i have gone back and read them all. thank you all so much for the birthday wishes.
that's all...
OH! since i was in college for game development for the past three years, here are links to my work for those who are curious:
Sketchfab: https://sketchfab.com/kai_rallison
Online portfolio: https://kairallison3dgeneralist.weebly.com/
Extra Life Charity.
Hi. it is I, the-alchemy-of-me! \(^o^)/ Yes, i still exist and am doing fine. been really busy lately with my first year in college in the game development course.
Time to get to the point. Extra Life is a charity event to raise money for a childrens miracle network hospital and i've chosen CHEO. my goal is 250 dollars but i would like to surpass that if possible. The event i'm participating in is a 24 hour non-stop gaming marathon on the 7th this month (November). I don't expect to everyone to donate or really anyone to donate unless they have some extra money they can spare but I would appreciate beyond words if you can at least help me sp
Humanmetrics Jung Typology Test II
my matesprite did a thing ( ) and so i wanted to try it too because it looked cool and kind of fun. so i did the test and i am:
INTP
Introvert(67%) iNtuitive(38%) Thinking(25%) Perceiving(56%)You have distinct preference of Introversion over Extraversion (67%)You have moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing (38%)You have moderate preference of Thinking over Feeling (25%)You have moderate preference of Perceiving over Judging (56%)
INTP Description
INTPs are pensive, analytical folks. They may venture so deeply into thought as to seem detached, and often actually are oblivious to the world around them.
Precise about their descriptio
this is gonna be fun and interesting
i commented on a fellow artist journal where did this and it's pretty cool so i gonna try it (#11 told me to)
leave a comment and i'll fill this out based on your DA account
1. What animal/creature you remind me of.
2. What color I think fits you.
3. How I feel about you.
4. complement you.
5. My favorite OC of yours.
6. What season you remind me of.
7. Tell you what food you smell like in my head.
8. A song you remind me of.
9. Think of a random nickname for you.
10. What element you remind me of.
11. I'll tell you to put this in your journal without using the words 'tag' or 'dare'
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